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Have you heard the expression, “The outer world is a reflection of your inner world”? People usually say it just the opposite: make the change from the inside and you’ll see transformations in your outer world. And it is true! Yet, let us look at it from a different perspective. With the objective of gaining precious insights, rather than jumping into action.

Every one of our life situations is an indication of our inner state of BEing. One surprisingly easy way to gain insights, is to look at what is happening in our life, especially in our physical space. It gives us invaluable information on what is happening inside of us.

Let’s do a little exercise shall we? We’ll see what needs to be tweaked in our inner selves in order to achieve easier, faster results in our businesses and personal lives.

OK, look at your current environment, just as it is right now. Try to see your entire surroundings as a mirror image of your inner state of BEing. Witness the state of mind, the emotional conditions, and the physical stage that you are right in now. Examine closely your environment, first your home, then your office.

Some people use intuition cards, or read the tarot. You can do the same with your surroundings. For example, I look at the area around my printer, and I see a stack of printed paper on the side, that is waiting to be removed and recycled. It is stagnant energy. Nothing is moving there.

Another example is the small table in my office where I stacked books of inspiration for my new book around efficient spiritual tools to grow your business. They are organized in piles by subject, yet they collect dust and when I look at them sitting on the table those nasty little self-judgmental inner remarks come up around my project.

As you can see, I had a lot of fun doing this exercise, searching for snapshots of “my outer reality” like message cards revealing hidden secrets from my soul! The printer area seemed to be saying “Clear the immobility and follow through!” I realized that I had let things accumulate in piles, without acting on them when I needed to.

After a while, the accumulation created a deep sense of overwhelm. This stress could be avoided. I had gotten the message and to me it was the most invaluable insight; the exact thing I needed to know to unblock my situation and clear the sense of overwhelm.

The snapshot (or intuition card) of my second situation told me “Writing your book is stuck because you’re judging yourself. You’re looking to gather proof of your inability to write as well as your peers. How much dust do you need to accumulate, how much resentment do you need to feel before you love yourself and go back to writing again?”

Wow, where did that come from? Must be time to love myself more! These writers are great, and I AM as great as they are. I have a real message to bring out to the world, and I’m sure it will help a lot of people to find solutions and grow their income and business in alignment!

You don’t have to get a whole paragraph of insight. Sometimes a few words will come from looking at your surroundings:

• Are things really clean and clear in your office space? This might mean that you are clear on what you want to achieve, and where you want your business to go.
• Is your phone or internet connection having problems right now? This might mean you have to look at your communication in business; you may have to “tweak’ something there.
• Are your closets or desk messy? I know my desk frequently is. (I say that I’m the messiest Virgo on Earth!) This could mean that while we’re clear on what we want, we’re still working on the process of things and how they could be integrated! It is often true for me. Is it for you?
• Do you have a wobbly bookshelf, or a rickety table or desk? Look at the structure of your business and what needs to be done to reinforce it to a more sound and stable position.

Notice how you’re more confused when your surroundings are cluttered? If we have a tendency to scatter things on shelves and tables - all over our space - could it be that we ourselves are scattered? Do we need to ground ourselves more?

We can gain tremendous insight just from looking at our place. Yet in order to receive a clear message, we need to be in a neutral mindset and avoid judging ourselves. So, for the insight to come, you simply need to relax about the outcome. Just go with what comes to mind when you look at your surroundings. Don’t overanalyze the situation, keep it simple.

What is your home or office telling yourself about your business, your structure, your process, and your feelings? Can you get a message from your space, looking at it like in a mirror?

Enjoy this exercise and please share your comments and findings!

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First let’s look at what coaching is and why it could help you.

Do you want to reduce and manage your stress, develop your own business or a special project faster, attract clients with more ease, enjoy more free time, charge what you are really worth, and/or improve your personal or business relationships?

Is there something you need to change about your life? Holistic coaching helps you to break negative belief patterns, set challenging aspirations and achieve your dreams.

People who hire coaches ultimately want MORE out of life.

Imagine having someone who is not only dedicated to fully listen to and understand you, but also skilled at ensuring you get the answers you need in order to move forward in success.

Ask yourself what you would expect to accomplish in coaching?!
If you answer YES to one or more of the following questions, coaching can work for you:

- Do you want/need to bring about major change(s) in your life with the support of someone who will hold your vision for you?
- Do you want to increase your confidence and boost your self-esteem?
- Is there something at stake (big challenge, exiting new opportunity) and you want to be sure you realize it?
- Is your work and/or life out of balance?
- Could you gain more clarity or would you like to make decisions more easily?
- Are you living a very stressful lifestyle?
- Do you have the desire to accelerate positive results in your life right now?
- Do want to know yourself better? Do you need help defining your core strengths, talents, values and life purpose?
- Do you want less clutter in your life, and to enjoy a simpler, easier, happier life?
- Are you extremely successful and now hitting blocks to success?
- Do you want to be better organized and more self-reliant?

What are the benefits you expect from Business Coaching with Nathalie?
If you engage in a coaching relationship with Nathalie, you can expect to experience different perspectives on your personal challenges and opportunities, enhanced focus, thinking and decision making skills, improved interpersonal effectiveness, and increased confidence in carrying out your different projects, goals and life roles. Consistent with a commitment to enhancing personal effectiveness, you can also expect to see appreciable results in the areas of productivity, personal satisfaction with life and work, and the achievement of personally relevant goals.

Coaching can help you to feel:
- Motivated and valued as you define your goals and get help to break them down into achievable pieces
- Energized and more assertive because you will be confident to take action
- More self-assured as you eliminate your negative beliefs and patterns
- More balanced in your life, and more “at peace” with yourself and others
- A reduction in stress because you are addressing the causes of the stress
- More abundant in all areas of your life

What Nathalie will require from you:
- Be willing to openly and fully collaborate
- Be focused on yourself and your success
- Be open to changing your perspective and to try and experiment with new behavior
- Be disciplined while having compassion for yourself and others
- Be prepare to examine yourself, challenge existing attitudes, beliefs and behaviors and to develop new ones which serve your goals more completely
- Be willing to laugh which is a necessary ingredient to lighten and brighten any situation

So, I hope that clarifies a few things. Now the next step is to call Nathalie and schedule your complimentary Success Strategy Session (a $100 value!). After a 30 minute conversation with Nathalie Ekobo you will have a very clear picture of where you are, where you want to be, what slowed you down, what types of roadblocks you encounter(ed) and how to remove them and set up aligned strategies to get to your NEXT LEVEL faster and with more ease.

This Success Strategy Session is completely free of charge, a gift from Nathalie to you, a chance for you to get exposed to her “art of coaching and clearing” and to get real guidance on your future success. Please, only schedule a session if you are really serious about going to the next level. Ready? Call now and leave a message: 602-881-3040 or email Nathalie at Nathalie@BeMagnifique.com . We guarantee you’ll be very glad you did!~

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Do you sometimes lack confidence or self-esteem? Have you ever criticized yourself? I bet you have. This is the #1 way people sabotage themselves. We all have struggled at some point with our Inner Critique.

Think for a minute about the consequences of having an inner self-destructive conversation; how many opportunities for joy did you miss? How many opportunities to attract more money easily and effortlessly?

And how much more sadness, feeling of rejection, constriction, frustration, and anger you have experienced, felt or ignored… and yet stuffed into your body. (Ouch!)

How about claiming your Fame, being in the spotlight, or even being seeing as THE Expert—would you like more of that?

It’s all really about getting your unique message and service out there to the world; it’s not about ego! To reach and help more people you need to be seen and valued more, and to do that you need to stop the self-judgment and raise your confidence … and that’s why I’m here for!

I hear this all the time from my clients and I decided to listen to their requests and to my guidance in creating this exciting 2 part teleconference-workshop. You may find this remark a little woo-woo , yet Spirit has given me so many tools that you will be able to choose the ones that really fit your personality and use them for tremendous self growth which will result in business growth too!

Both classes will be filled with tools you will enjoy both during the class and after. Included with each class are handouts and access to the audio recording for online listening.

Class details are as follows:

Wednesday, April 22 at 5pm PDT
“Raise you Confidence & Self-esteem to reach Higher Goals & Successes!” Price: $17 (reg Price: $37)
To register, click here:http://tinyurl.com/dlrb7e

Wednesday, April 29 at 5pm PDT

“More Confidence in your Heart, More Money in your Pocket!” Price: $17(reg Price: $37)
To register, click here:http://tinyurl.com/d3346w

To register for both classes at once, click here:http://tinyurl.com/cnsp5x

The classes are best taken together, but they can also be purchased separately since they are stand alone classes.

Class size is limited in order to get real quality interaction! So, reserve your seat before it’s too late!

If you can’t join me for the calls, you can have access to the audio recording and handouts to review at your convenience. Just sign up for the class and you will receive the information.

With the class purchase, you can also purchase the downloadable audio recording and transcripts for an additional $7. Simply add this to your order.

“If you don’t believe in yourself, then who will believe in you? The next man’s way of getting there might not necessarily work for me, so I have to create my own ways of getting there.”
  ~ Michael Korda

You are invited to create your own way to raise your confidence and skyrocket your business and life!

I hope to **see** you in class!

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